I often find it difficult to get into a female frame of mind, and I would bet that the trouble goes the other way as well. I found a book that deals with this, but is not clinical. In fact, it is hysterically funny so far. Self-made Man by Norah Vincent. Every woman should read it. Most men will get a kick out of it.
Here's a little sample about bowling: "I was surrounded by men who had cement dust in their hair and sawdust under their fingernails. They had nicotine-sallowed faces that looked like ritual masks, and their hands were as tough and scarred as falcon gloves. These were men who, as one of them told me later, had been shoveling shit their whole lives."
Or this about girls tennis camp: "Their parents had sent them there to get rid of them. They just stood around most of the time posing for one another, showing off their tans... As for posing, I looked like I'd been raised by wolverines."
This is one book you will never lend to anyone.